Weddings are so steeped in tradition you could pull your hair out trying to plan something that you are not even sure you want! We have shared the traditions we think you should break before, but we wanted to know your controversial opinions! Make sure to let us know which you agree with, and leave your hot takes in the comments below.

“Don’t expect parents to pay.  it’s a commitment to each other not a birthday Party “

Jenny Roberts (Facebook)

“No children at weddings“

Beth Carlysle from Miss Carlysle & Co (Facebook)

“No plus ones unless they are known to bride and groom, and no phones”

Debbie Lock (Facebook)

5 ways you can break wedding traditions

4 more traditions you should break

I then looked into some of the most popular controversial opinions on the internet. Which ones do you agree with?

Speeches are boring

Wearing white is overrated

Your wedding cake CAN be the dessert

Your dad doesn’t need to ‘give you away’

Elopements are a great option

Short ceremonies are the best choice

The bride shouldn’t have to change her name

Bridesmaids don’t have to match

You shouldn’t need to spend the night before apart

Elopements are a great option

What are your controversial wedding opinions, please let us know in the comments!