There are always specific questions that your guests will ask in the lead-up to your wedding day, often from the day you announce your engagement. Many of them will be obvious questions, but some will be entirely original. Answering the same question multiple times can be quite a time-consuming task. To help, we have gathered 20 common questions that you should aim to answer in your invitations, on your website, or over email. To round it off, we have also included five we hope you won’t be asked!

20 questions your guests WILL ask

When and where is your wedding?

When do you need my RSVP by?

Can I have a plus one? (6 tips for inviting plus ones)

Are children allowed?

Where can I find your gift list? Are your registered anywhere? (7 of the best wedding gift lists)

What is the dress code?

What will the weather be/will it be inside or outside?

Where can I stay near the venue?

How do I get to the venue?

Who is in your bridal party? (Why do we need bridesmaids and groomsmen)

Can you accommodate my dietary requirement?

Do you have a wedding website?

What photographer/cake maker/florist are you using?

Where are you going on your honeymoon?

What’s your first dance?

Can I request songs?

Have you picked your dress yet?

Who will I be sitting with? (5 wedding seating chart templates)

Will it be an open bar?

When does the wedding end?

5 questions we hope you WON’T be asked

Isn’t that venue, etc expensive?

When are you starting your family?

Can you please invite (obscure family member)?

Aren’t you super stressed?

Where’s my invite? (6 tips for creating your wedding guest list)

Have you had a crazy question? We would love to hear it in the comments!